FRIENDS with benefits

Here is a write up on what we feel is the best way to go about friends with benefits.

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So, for me, everything is friendship. Everything must start at a basic friendship level before it can go anywhere else, and it always goes back to friendship level after it goes anywhere else.

Now (for discussion sake) lets say one day you decide you are horny and in need and contact me. Then on that day our friendship includes benefits. Be it pics and videos, sexting, make out, foreplay, or full on sex. You draw the line and I don't cross it. When that is done/needs are met, then we go right back to friendship level. If any of that becomes a regular thing, then cool. If not, then we are still friends.

If you need someone to accompany you to an event as your date, then for that day/event we step it up to date level. Then when it is done, we go right back to friends.

If you want to go on dates and spend a whole day together, holding hands and chatting and everything, amazing, when it's done, we go right back to friends.

Doesn't mean it can't ever go above friends and stay above friends, but that would require a completely separate conversation and agreements of expectations. Be it moving up to dates often, or sexting often, or full on relationship.

But until then, and regardless of what may happen on any given day, we are friends first and foremost.

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What do you think???